Toxins can be RESOURCES .. if they are NOT taken to EXTREME
Most things are dual, BOTH good and bad. In a WAR, fast action is good. Let's not go to WAR, discuss
Fri. Nov 17, 2023, 1:30 pm.
Discussion of conflict and FAIRNESS toward COMPROMISE will ALWAYS beat WAR. Looking at the destruction of Palestine is horrifying. For what .. only to create more rage and revenge at unfairness? We used to have balanced brains. The toxins of our progress destroyed our brain wiring. Right brain neurons must be more sensitive because too many "people" NO LONGER THINK! Left brain Action wiring jumps to WARRIOR mode too fast. The brain hemisphere should work together but we are disabled! FIRST we think about DISCUSS things and THEN we act, if we are NORMAL actual humans and not zombies.
very NB!!
A human is a BIG bag of onions. 😁 Each onion is a problem or conflict or question we cross daily in our quest to make our life good. Each problem or question needs research analysis, evaluation BEFORE it is acted on! But in our LAZY irresponsible quest for fast and easy we no longer BOTHER. We just grab the 2 onion shells the brown crackly oe or the inner elastic skin .. and choose a "SKIN DEEP" answer! Screw working thru the layers of each onion to get to the HEART .. the TRUTH .. the REAL solution where EVERYONE WINS. No us lazy people take only one or the other skin and THROW OUT THE ONION. At least this is a left brain LAZY tendency. Yes they are disabled so we should be empathetic but DAMMIT .. listen to us if you are DISABLED form THINKNG.
Think about it! The onion is a PERFECT problem analogy for the way we are behaving. Left brains are only the SHELL .. the 2 skins only and off they go to ACTION. "Gun/ no gun, abortion/ no abortion, Palestine/ Israel" all opposing ideas, SIMPLY demonizing the other. Then they stand on opposite street or gov't sides and scream. Where does that get us??? Only the HARD work of going thru each onion layer to the onion heart will find the truth. At least it will lead to closer Truth if we try to avoid our BIASES.
Be very clear .. right left brain HAS NOTHING to do with politics. That is merely the side they sit on in the capitol! I suggest all politicians, "leaders", I should say RULERS (REAL Leaders are BALANCED BRAINS .. like we all SHOULD have!) But our poisonous "progress" of greed, ate our brain, literally! all politicians and corporate managers are LEFT BRAIN. (see mcgilchrist link) ONLy selfish shallow action could possibly have made the MESS we now find ourselves in. We can only make change if we STOP .. stop taking part in the crap they feed us! Its purpose is PURELY THEIR profit. NOTHING they do has ANYTHING to do with "we the people" and the greater good! Don't be like me .. naive to the goal of humans .. well the ZOMBIES that are in control. Their mission is complete control and all profit. 😱
Why do you think people who WONDER not able to understand such a MESS .. are called conspiracy theorists? We are not imagining conspiracy. The GOAL is NOT us silly sheep's well being, but only THEIRS! We can starve while they JET. They are either evil or brain dead of empathy and considering OTHERS.
Instead we take the easy way, the 2 opposing onion SKINS. Skin deep SHALLOW action FAILS, because the LOUDEST just wins not the idea that is FAIR! We are too lazy to THINK thru all the steps involved to find compromise! Think to compromise steps too are more SUCCESSFUL action! Simple good vs bad BANDAID "solutions" are now all collapsing. Left brains demean slower "Thinkers" saying that we never get anything done. (I Rather be a calm "primitive", with actual quality of life than have the un-FAIR "PROGRESS" white judeo christians took destroying everything with no mind or "heart".)
I think I finally UNDERSTAND the term DUALITY. Everything has 2 sides, good/ bad, yin, yang.
Tues. Sept. 26, 2023, 7:30 pm.
Almost everything in our life is good AND bad. truth is almost always bad, but telling a loser he IS when he is already feeling terrible is not a NICE truth. Tell her she will learn to keep on with projects, instead of stopping. Be supportive, no truth is needed here, the person KNOWS. Say "I will yell at you to keep going with your plan, you don't have to do it alone." Do NOT "yes, you are a loser, you will NEVER succeed". So even truth can have a BAD effect .. you could cause a suicide with your sticking to the TRUTH. I guess LOVE is always good .. but love is so HARD (= compromise and SACRIFICE) .. so to me "love is all we need" is very shallow even PHONY. True .. but are you ready to do the WORK of love? ("Love" take focus, energy, time, selflessness and above all LISTENING to HEAR and learn and reconsider. = HARD WORK.) 😁
Sun is amazing. we love it but it fades things and can burn our skin. Water is soothing but it can drown us. Shade is great when we are hot, but bad if trying to grow a garden.
So the one rule of life is EVERYTHING IN MODERATION! Balance all things! But this requires SELF Discipline. Anything EXTREME is always bad.
Strangely for some reason back in my Home Ec teaching days that is what I told the kids day one .. if you learn nothing else, get disciplined to hand things in on time .. it will serve you well throughout life. Plus savour everything .. so you need not (eat) extreme you have enjoyed a BALANCE. How weird eh? I hope you can learn and benefit from what seems to have been my life's obsession. How do we make a nice LIFE for ourselves AND others?
the biggest toxin vs its OPPOSING Resources, division and DISCONNECT! .. vs COHESION!
Tues. nov 7, 2023, 9:00 pm.
COHESION .. the antidote the duality of our worst mess. All is divide or DISCONNECTED. We can not even have the ability to CONNECTmany ideas into one greater idea! Everything is so specialized we miss the BIG PICTURE. Go study a book store .. the Health section! Gluten, "mental wellness" kale and smoothie, yoga. Are there any including the stress of our societal injustices and the way to find your talent, so you always have a career sharing/ trading your skill? All our ideas are "specialized" the enemy of wholeness! We want our whole life to be healthy. You know human health and happiness for all. (and not the shallow crap happy of those who never struggled in their life!)
COHESION is a RESOURCE we must CULTIVATE .. grow and increase for our human stock market to increase! People, ideas and SYSTEMS must each be cohesive. Today none of these CONNECT. Every buiness is so siloed we scream whenever we have problems. NOTHING connects! It helps to drive us insane.
It took me 7 decades to figure out most RESOURCES, (things of VALUE), .. are also TOXIC?
Tues. Sept. 26, 2023, 3:00 pm
We live by MONEY ..it is the only VALUE we care about! But there are sOOO many other things that have VALUE .. that are FAR more important! Human connection, calm vs stressed living, security, respect, TRUTH and TRUST! These have FAR more value than money but our lives are run by trading time or space for MONEY. Landowners are the winners, developers keep taking more of our history, sun and decent weather, destroying what was GOOD in cities.
Living in, amidst cement towers is NOT what cities were ... they had soul and were exciting. The spirit of HISTORY was a far more important RESOURCE than another extreme artistic dining spot. But in our tunnel vision for more, bigger, faster we have lost the real RESOURCE, a community of connected HUMANS. developers have their profit, but in taking cities extreme they have made them TOXIC. Stress is cancerous, increasing our physical distress, but also CONTAGIOUS, affecting others and increasing their stress and wellness. .
every good thing EXTREME .. becomes toxic .. especially the iPhone. It has seriously destroyed human
The iPhone is amazing. Seeing how it is destroying our humanity .. humans are ZOMBIES .. losing their mind and heart with LACK OF ATTENTION makes me HATE the whole movement to digital. But I forget this really IS amazing progress .. and INCREDIBLE resource. If only we were not so stupid from our SUGAR EATEN BRAIN. Everything we invent is AMAZING .. until we take it EXTREME .. th worst toxin of all besides our DISCONNECT.
Disconnect is a RESOURCE .. just going quiet stopping everything and being calm. No THIS DICONNECT is TOTAL .. from others, from IDEAS, from connected organization (everything is sited, so many layers we can find no REAL answers, truth or REAL SOLUTIONS. Yup .. progress is wonderful making life easier. NOPE! "progress" is EVIL when fed only by GREED .. productivity to make more profit. So even PRODUCTIVITY is a GREAT RESOURCE or has great VALUE if you are an entrepreneur and your partner workers try to SAVE costs so you profit. When you cut costs perhaps solely to create GARBAGE we only need to REBUY .. ir is EVIL .. TOXIC!!
Take Kindness, even THAT extreme turns TOXIC to the KIND PERSON. if you always think of others first .. all the TIME, when life is over you will have HAD NO LIFE for you. You will have spent it worrying about others. Salt if they are Left brains they will NOT say you are kind they will say you are virtue signalling, trying to feel good or better than. All your selflessness will be for nought because Left brains do not HAVE empathy wiring. We worriers confuse them, so they turn bully. It gets us nowhere to only be kind and caring. we really DO have to look after ourself .. or we get angry. Who is looking after us? In a "me first, screw you" society the UNFAIR can get too much for those who do FIRST consider the common good. Are we the ones who get addicted, overdose, commit suicide or death by cop? What fascinating research that would be.
Charlie Barr
HAH! I think I finally understand DUALITY! Every idea and invention is GOOD until taken extreme. Without balance and MODERATION everything collapses. Like yin and yang opposites even the sun and water can be evil ..or good, when in MODERATION!!
The answer to everything is BALANCE .. MODERATION.
Elevators were great till we went against Penn's common sense of 6 floors, and made them "TOWERS of POWER" and GREED!
Balance.. MODERATION in USING ideas, inventions, but also in managing a biz, or running a country.
Elevators were great till we went against Penn's common sense of 6 floors, and made them "TOWERS of POWER" and GREED! Yes a tower of50 floors is GREATLY more productive and profitable. But had we not lost our HUMANITY (balanced our right brain THINKING FIRST, we would have notice wind tunnels and shadow. Even now with Developers knowing the negative neighbourhood destroying results, the GREED STILL COMES FIRST. No more ATTTENTION to LISTENING, and LEARNING spells our EXTINCTION!
OMG!!! OMG!! Even ATTENTION is dual! In my head ATTENTION is god .. and why we are zombies.
But ATTENTION is exactly why I have no friends and everyone hates me! .. seriously! (I did have Buffalo friends but covid took EVERYTHING from me, like in Hawaii) TOO MUCH ATTENTION (to what is going wrong) makes you a person people cross the street to avoid. I want my family Studies removed from the curriculum to be used BIG .. a bigger FAMILY to save us, and forget I can be too much. How about asking how someone is doing? Give attention to the WE ledger instead of CONSTANTLY the US Ledger. Most are Left brain anyway so they only think me selfish .. ?? Yeah sure, floors never vacuumed, spring clothes still in a pile UNUSED and it is FALL. Sure I am so selfish idiot. I completely neglect the ME ledger to WORRY about our FUTURE. But idiot me must face Left brains don't care .. OR .. are too stressed to listen to my ranting. So yes even a focus on solutions extreme is BAD .. toxic I guess. sorry. I myself must try to BALANCE .. teach or preach in moderation? It is just we are about to go over the cliff, or our Ttanic is SINKING .. or the TRAIN is coming and WE ARE ON THE TRACKS OBLIVIOUS. Sorry if I find it hard to be CALM>
So even ATTENTION must be moderated from obsession. Or we will be considered one of those ?autistic people, no social skills? Sadly though if oblivious or NO ATTENTION TO OUR US LEDGER people do not pay attention NOW .. sorry .. we are DEAD .. extinct.
aha .. this is my first point of 9 steps to saving us! I scream all the time of ANOTHER event or observation proving we are insane or too stupid to live. Step 1 to help people AND ME .. is to ACCEPT that we have gone TOTALLY the wrong way with our toxic extreme and System of DISCONNECT. Stress is not just cancerous in us .. but is now CONTAGIOUS. Let's breathe, calm ourselves and then move to the ACTION of STEPPING OUT of insane world.
put this separate
Step 1 to help people AND ME .. is to ACCEPT that we have gone TOTALLY the wrong way with our toxic extreme and System of DISCONNECT. Stress is not just cancerous in us .. but is now CONTAGIOUS. Let's breathe, calm ourselves and then move to the ACTION of STEPPING OUT of insane world.
So my past work demonizing Left brains must be tempered. Of Course the left has VALUE
But the RIGHT hemisphere wiring must be utilized FIRST to THINK things through! The Left will be quicker at deciding and following though. But without cause and consequence contemplation, merely acting .. never creates REAL solutions or success!
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The last invention or RESOURCE we can take TOXIC (extreme) .. before our FINAL HUMAN EXTINCTION
Wed. Oct 18, 2023, 3:30 pm
Wake up! This time Choose correctly or DIE! Why not EVEN refuse QR codes?? If we are so LAZY we can not even REMEMBER or write down a web address .. we SHOULD DIE. At the very LEAST QR codes waste cloud space AND DESTROY OUR BRAINS WITH ANOTHER REASON TO KEEP the STUPID CANCEROUS PHONE CLOSE. SORRY .. WE REALLY HAVE BECOME TOO STUPID TO LIVE. LUCKY I AM NOT GOD, AS MY KIDS SAY I THINK I AM. 😈 I WOULD WIPE US OFF THE FACE OF EARTH .. LIKE the INVADING COCKROACHES that we ARE. (sorry caps was on .. will fix later.)
STOP!! Think what A I will do to Humanity! have you done that? Doyou think nerds and our leaders who care ONLY for profit will have humanity's best iterate at heart?? NO! So WE have to stop it by NOT being part of it .. REFUSING and yes SCREAMING. At LEAST read part 2 of this article .. and if you are not lazy and are a GROWN UP .. read the whole thing. we do EVERYTHING in our society in EXTREMES, with NO THINKING EVER of causes and consequences on humanity down the road. "Me / mine, here, now" selfish behaviour with A I? .. will be the last greedy stupidity we get to partake in. Why would we not consider the problems we may create FIRST, before we ACT with stupid BANDAID answers or "solutions"??
Sure A I could do amazing things to HELP humans. But we know NO moderation or BALANCE. Our desire for shallow, selfish EXTREME, this time .. AI gone over to the evil side .. (unlike elevators and drugs and sugar slowly destroying our health, eventually killing us with cancer and disease) A I extreme will kill us VERY quickly! No jobs = STARVATION! or 1 of 2 jobs gone? Those with a job against those without will cause killing CONFLICT. Will starving people kill each other? Just considering ONLY Transportation, moving people and goods .. counts about 17% of jobs!!! Thanks driverless monster A I, for taking almost 1 of 5 jobs! We can just starve and NO .. new jobs will NEVER cover the number of jobs taken. That is shallow, nah .. STUPID! and selfish illogic. That behaviour has taken us to the very edge of EXTINCTION.
I have been yelling my whole life "we are at a cliff, about to go over it!" or .. "the train is coming and we are on the track, completely unaware!" or Our ship is SINKING! instead of BAILING TOGETHER we spend time screaming at each other for NONSENSE unimportant idiocy! BYE! I will see you good DECENT humans in heaven.
The DUALITY of even toxins .. if we THINK FURTHER
PERFECT!!! This is from "exploring your mind"? Right vs Left brain COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER!!
earlier work .. check ideas ..Tues. Sept. 5, 2023, 7:30 pm
This is PERFECT .. but again a NEW way to refine the Left Right Brain problem. When both HEMISPHERE"S are BALANCED .. ie USED IN MODERATION vs EXTREME!! .. Then they compliment each other!!
"We all recognize the symbol of Yin and Yang. And although this diagram has its most remote origin in Chinese philosophy, it can also be said that this idea, this concept, has its testimony in multiple cultures. It’s also seen in Hindu, Egyptian, and Hebrew traditions. This display of duality, the corollary where day and night, masculine and feminine, and the earth and sky form this sense of harmony where the opposite is complimented and flows to give dynamism and sense to life." from Valeria Sabater on "Exploring your mind. com" see photo
WOW .. perfect to remind me that Left is only evil (or even selfish and shallow) when EXTREME, not balanced, not used in MODERATION with the opposite Right brain HARMONY. When our brain wiring WAS BALANCED each used in moderation everything was fine. we made ACTUAL human progress! but only Left rbi. ACTION alone without the pRE thinking of the right hemisphere can only create shallow COLLAPSE of systems.
Imbalanced Left or even Right B Hemispheres can be TOXIC. Purely Left wiring is devoid of EMPATHY
Sat. Aug 26, 2023, 10:00 pm
Balanced wiring or even somewhat balance is what we need to function properly. Alone each hemisphere is NOT good. But even used together in COMPROMISE can turn a toxin into a RESOURCE. The right brain is a PAIN .. always asking why? or "BUT what about ..?" Just do it already says the frustrated Left brain. But a Right brain is now even MORE frustrated with the fast "Just get 'er done!" Left because NO LISTENING or TRYING TO UNDERSTAND has collapsed civilization! Not only do we feel disrespected and dismissed but we have to live with the fall out of STUPID narrow minded simplistic behaviour. Most everything is good AND bad. Anything EXTREME is almost always bad. Maybe kind and loving are exceptions?
Duality is ..HMM? Maybe "love" is a perfect example."Love is all you need" is SO simplified, shallow
Thurs. Aug. 24, 2023, 12:30 pm.
I laugh at all the hearts in TO windows. They are all that is wrong with us zombies! Love IS the answer but love is the HARDEST thing in the world. The whole problem is LOVE! If we actually HAD it .. there would BE no problem. There will always be differences between humans and LOVE is an ACTION a very HARD thing to do. Because LOVE means GIVING UP THINGS. Maybe I a yelling about this becaseu I am so SLOW in my life I have to give up LOVE. I have no relationship family or even FREINDS because they take TIME, energy, THINKNG and I am TOO BUSY to have time required! REAL love with its compromise and responsibility for another's happiness IS A HUGE JOB! I am busy caring about the greater good. All y "love" EFFORT goes there 18 hours a day. Maybe the stupid "hearts" symbolizing love is all you need make me mad becaseu it is not FAIR!! I do not gat to have friends or family even becaseu I do not have TIME for the love energy that RELATIONSHIPS involve.
HAH! Love is a ledger one of our biggest resources! BUT! it needs investment. EPIPHANY!! All our human resources take INVESTMENT. If we went back to just being apes and eating bananas life would require little INVESTMENT. If we want banana bread and ice-cream we need to work together and trade resources. I invest in something you invest in something and then we TRADE FAIRLY. BUT this tales effort now to THINK and be FAIR .. or SHOW LOVE. HAH!! amazing epiphany. My 3 Life ledgers are all GIVE/ TAKE exactly like love! When women showed RESPECT for the protection of men, men felt valued and in return were more kind and considerate of their woman. As we more and more attack men .. they feel less and less valued and strike back. This is what we do with everything today! Show NO RESPECT and NO RESPONSIBILITY. Why do you think most relationships crash and burn? We live in a culture of "ME first, screw you.". And that's why I have no family and friends .. I think that is not allowed in a REAL relationship. And to accomplish my TOTAL Health work I HAD TO put me first, no time to even meet up with others!
Einstein said unless you can explain it clearly you do not yet understand it. I Think I am coming closer to understanding the answers tot he 67 years of looking to understand. I hate the love crap AND WANT TO BUILD "FAIR" .. because it is not FAIR I am so slow. You could have figured this out in 10 NORMAL LIFE years, not 25 totally obsessed like me. so sorry to be ANGRY! 🤬 🤯
Life Ledgers let you MEASURE the VALUE of the investment put in (deposit) vs the out withdrawal. confusing think further .. opposite
Is it we shallow silly people only look at the FINAL, not what went in like selling you soul? "McKinsey THEM's", sell their soul for the stock market value of shares. We have LOST our human stock market .. its value is almost ZERO. Stressed people are sick in every area of our health triangle. Sure you maid your million but the physical resources and SPIRIT resources are gone. You are now destroying young people 100%, both emotionally with DISCONNECT and physically with destroyed health.
What is most important is what you get OUT of the ledger .. the POSITIVE balance. Or is the BALANCE a NEGATIVE? Now our society is in negative territory. Not just our personal ban account is BANKRUPT .. too much debt.. but so is civilizations. We have depleted all our bank accounts me/ we and US! Our Life ledgers are not zero .. they are MINUS! I guess INVESTING in love is the same as INVESTING in a job. we put IN .. and we get OUT what we need to live. BUT for too long we have put in FAR MORE THAN WE GOT OUT. The stress the power families have created is unsustainable. Never mind enviroinmental COLLAPSE. I suggest human comes even sooner. Let's get started with our TEMPLATE others can copy!! And help me fix the things I have neglected or been in error on!
awesome book .. All about Love .. Bell Hooks
OBLIVIOUS ZOMBIES have destroyed our world! And yet they live a more decent (unstressed) life.
lj
No wonder! They care NOTHING about the "WE" and "US" ledgers of Life in society. ME = the FOCUS!
This makes life easy! maybe we Right brain worriers (for the COMMON and GREATER good) need to learn to take a break .. just think about our OWN well being for a bit. Use the tool of their selfish simple life.
The problem with NOT being negative .. just be positive, just look at the good side.
"Train your mind to see good in everything" is great .. but how do I do that when the reality is we have lost our brain.. we care more about fast and easy than REAL solutions to problems. WE train ourselves to live in the NOW, but that is the very thing that created our toxic society!! No contemplation of FUTURE consequences creates a future HELL!! The problem with being "positive" is that it gives you an excuse to be oblivious, and a reason to not be RESPONSIBLE and speak out!
That quote "you can only fix yourself" is a total CON JOB! It is a scam by Left brains in control, who do NOT want us thinking we could possibly fix something THEY control! They do NOT want us inventive Right brains getting in their business and doing it BETTER. "Just fix yourself .. don't rant about fixing the system. Who do you think you are?" It is demeaning because they can not even follow our Multi thinking. Somehow they zap our confidence for what THEY are unable to follow! They are masters of the TWIST!! They makes us feel arrogant, and bad. But we SHOULD be proud, we exactly DO have better ideas that will be TRULY successful vs the shallow silo successes that are now collapsing! But we must QUIT THAT sabotaging put down of ourself! We Thinkers are the only ones who can save the world. Along with the balanced and strssed selfish and shallow willing to listen and try different.
So I guess this is the biggest duality of all! True .. being positive is wonderful. Always worrying and thinkng is a pain to be around. But what happens when we really HAVE arrived at the cliff of irresponsible disrespect? Do the positive people just go on somehow not falling over? And we fall over because we visualized it? 🤔
OR .. do those of us who worried about our failures, just go over the cliff with the evil doers who caused the failures? NOT FAIR! We were the "canary in the coal mine" yelling to BEWARE .. but nobody listened. Rachel Carlson warned us of extinctions 50 years ago! Nobody listened. But human extinction is happening so fast .. we don't even have 10 years TO WAKE UP let alone 50!
So I am supposed to be positive about this HORRID behaviour at concerts. That is OBVIOUSLY Reality? Civilized people do not sing loudly. What if I came to actually here my artist .. I don't care about you and I paid to hear THEM! Who the hell do you think you are? Obviously far more "special" than me, eh? Then .. get the hell off my planet! .. or at least stay away from our GATED community. Our community only allows in DECENT thoughtful HUMANS, not selfish zombies.
I am right that people (or too many of us) are not human anymore. (We are sadly past not civil!) "Me first, screw you" and a "me/ mine, here, now" focus are worse than even animals behave ! Call me negative but your chosen oblivion, and irresponsible child like disrespectful behaviour have destroyed society. Whoops, sorry! if that was actually YOU reader, you would be long gone! Sorry, stupid of me! I will edit this out in re read .. nothing is edited .. sorry! But yell at those who are so crass and mannerless PLEASE! They are DESTROYING our CIVILIZATION!
So what IS reality?Are we WORRIERS really just NEGATIVE miserable people? Is THEIR REALITY possible?
Tues. Aug. 22, 2023, 11:00 am. (add Ruta reality vs what I see)
Logic and reason tells us we can not be Disrespectful and IRresponsible, and still expect things to work properly. But why is their life all fine and dandy? it truly seems so, not just them lying. Sorry BUT it is JUST NOT FAIR. YES! I am an INJUSTICE COLLECTOR and for our common GREATER good. I want a decent life for EVERYBODY, so yes I collect INJUSTICES to see how we can FIX them. NOT FAIR IS EVIL!
But that too is given a negative connotation. EVERYTHING IS TWISTED I am telling you. It is enough to drive SANE thoughtful caring people INSANE! Who do you think made up that derogatory term? Those that see no evil and hear no evil because they are oblivious zombies!! OR even worse I guess, they do not want to waste time with "OTHER thinking" because they honestly consider themself so self important. I envision ostriches with their head in the sand!
BUT .. those are actually 2 kinds of people! So stressed with life you stick your head in the sand is understandable and deserves compassion. Oblivious becaseu we little unimportant people do not MATTER is a totally different thing .. and evil. WE overwhelmed overloaded just have to find ways to cope and that I can have total empathy for. I am always talking about total lack of caring for another well being. I am not talking about the behaviour of those overwhelmed with the very TOXINS that are destroying our TOTAL Societal health.
If we are thinking about things that are not working, how the procedure could be better, this is TWISTED as NEGATIVE, by those who "just think positive!" I guess maybe they are jealous because we are inventive Right brains? Should we just be positive and EXPECT all will be good? Which is the REAL REALITY. "It's all good, just RELAX already" .. or .. "we are going to DIE .. VERY SOON" .. ? Can we live in different realities at once? Can life be great for those MY-opic Left brains but hell for us Right who SEE FURTHER? is this quantum physics or just expect it and you will get it? Or .. is it just lazy irresponsible people only focused on SELF.
It is a mystery to me but ..
Definitely WEIRD things are happening with reality. I am telling you, I am NOT a craZy lady! 🤯 🤪
- Forgot most NB of all .. I weighed 117 lbs in spring and have eaten like a depressed "pig" ever since. (sorry that is an OLD people insult, you are good-er than us, pig. We used to INSULT animals saying people were "an animal". 50 years later I think animals are nicer than humans). back to the point! Nothing fits me! If I weight the same why does nothing fit? IF there is only one REAL reality how the hell can I possibly weigh the same but old clothes are too small? I do not believe the scale is malfunctioning. I carried heavy stuff on to compare the weight. Nope I weigh the same .. yet NOTHING fits! (edit .. too much repetition!)
- Birds all of a sudden flying so close to the building. 4 years ago never did.
- Once I swear a bird almost hit a man on a bench, but miraculously NOT doing so? Space seems to change its shape? (Does feeding them our crap food also fry THEIR brains, fly too close?)
- People I SWEAR will bump into me on sidewalk (I REFUSE to move if already on the edge) .. yet they never do? Is it because it was never their INTENT so the "magic magnet" lets them pass me un crashed.? (we get what we focus on. not their intent?)
- What IS reality?? I have begun to hear noises, but nothing fell or was caught by a breeze. Is the building settling, or have ghosts moved in?? Nope, I am not crazy (well, not with this anyway) .. just very curious WHAT "Reality" actually IS?
- add purse clasp magic This one will blow your mind!
- the many many GOOD things that have been thrown at me, ideas, books, people! Just exactly what I need to fill in some point to further my theory. If it is confirmation BIAS .. it was god sent because so strange how stuff fits perfectly
- one other .. ?
So can we just MAKE UP REALITY? Can we get oblivious, justACCEPT we QUIET ones can CHANGE the WORLD?
Can we NOT let noisy rude oblivious zombies give us rage .. and just BELIEVE our own belief and FOCUS can bring us the REALITY WE DO WANT? We will have to try because life is too chaotic and confusing to survive in without some tools.
OK! Let's us still HUMANS focus really hard on our better "REVERSE WORLD" SYSTEM!
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Imagine the old days when things were CALM, the stress was coming to the WELL! and cleaning our clothes. Was it truly REALLY awful? or was it an actual CONNECTED REAL Life? I would trade my "Apple Google Trap" .. for my farm childhood with outhouse and no running water any day! 😥 ( .. well .. maybe preferably closer to the village.) me .. take a picture of the well!
How our architecture has changed is a CRIME. Look at these buildings .. the HISTORIC ones where craftsmanship and pride of connected work MATTERED. Compare the new fast and inexpensive lost ART. The man who invented elevators wanted to make life easier for us .. he did not expect greed to destroy neighbourhoods and all sense of community.
Our "SYSTEM of DISCONNECT" robs people of pride in work, seeing the results of their work, instead of a small portion. How sad Henry Ford would be! Everything is DUAL. Awesome as an invention .. always taken to EXTREME which then turns it EVIL.
Toxins = whenever we go EXTREME. BALANCE can reduce TOXINS.
2 kinds of intelligence.. Left brain Action Intel is good
2 kinds of intelligence.. Left brain Action Intel is good
2 kinds of intelligence.. Left brain Action Intel is good
- Left brain INTELLIGENCE must come after the bulk of Right Thinking has been completed. yes the brains work together.
- Left brain skill at MANAGING and MULTI Tasking is invaluable to the slower plodding THINKER intelligence.
- We Need both. Both are VALUABLE but must be BALANCED.
Right brain CONNECTS layers of Intelligent ideas
2 kinds of intelligence.. Left brain Action Intel is good
2 kinds of intelligence.. Left brain Action Intel is good
- if we use THIS Right Brain "connecting Thinking INTELLIGENCE" FIRST, before acting it is very VALUABLE.
- If Left brains do not FIRST use our resource, then all we do is yell and feel rage that no one listens to us
- Then we ALL have to suffer the results of the poor success
Resources taken extreme .. are always TOXIC
Even PROFIT Toxins can be made more positive.
Even PROFIT Toxins can be made more positive.
- Competition is BAD when it purely works as one up-man-ship, with no Team or "common good" spirt.
- Layered work disconnects workers from success. There can only be poor quality, when no real result is seen. Why is this done? Do gov'ts give their buddies contracts, so 5 buddy kickbacks beats 2? Stop it, we see what you are doing! A con!
Even PROFIT Toxins can be made more positive.
Even PROFIT Toxins can be made more positive.
Even PROFIT Toxins can be made more positive.
- Competition is GOOD when used as incentive to try harder, a source of choosing to succeed well, together for the TEAM.
- Pride of work is completely LOST when there are layer upon layer of separate businesses involved in a process. Church builders were called CRAFTSMEN. They saw the final result of their beautiful work. Today all is DISCONNECT!
Examples of disconnected work
The escaping stuffed dog lady .. what an INCREDIBLE waste of all KIND of HUMAN resources
Wed. Aug.16, 2023, 8:00 pm
Our "NURSING HOME" that was supposed to be (semi retired ACTIVE living .. like a condo for LIVELY seniors!) just moved in a COMPLETELY senile alzhemered old lady THAT DOES NOT EVEN SPEAK THE LANGUAGE! I live here and she has been here what a week and twice already I have had to chase after gher ESCAPING. She has no idea where she lives or can even talk to anyone and should be in a CONTAINED floor or something! The "concierge" is already 5 jobs and certainly can not run after this fast lady and CATCHING here is impossible. She just keeps going .. and we can not REASON with her or change her focus becaseu of the language .
(sorry, but I hate canada now. Speak damn English! that is another reason all is collapsing, no communication and very RUDE behaviour of immigrants, boldly sticking in their own groups disrespectful of the country that "welcomed" them. we have NO CONNECTION of humans!) All these problems are all purposeful! .. to make life complicated chaos, so "we the people" can not REVOLT. Everything is so STUPID it becomes confusing! The staff waste of energy and the stress level between us all was ridiculous! but thank you god .. It made me fully understand my 3 Life Ledger invention, that me/ we / us all CONNECT even more than I realized!
How Chartwell's WASTE of every type of resource .. proves THEY are maybe even STUPIDER than us R B
Right brains THINK, want to understand. So we question, wonder and want to know why and then find BUT's! BUT! .. that is how one pelops and DESIGNS SOLUTIONS TO PROBLEMS. Real solutions instead of easy fast bandaids. Our society of CONVENIENCE has killed us .. at least the part of our brain that makes us a CONSCIUS HUMAN. If we are oblivious ZOMBIES we lack HUMANITY.
OK every Life Ledger had huge withdrawals because of that stupid situation. Our HUMAN Stock exchange VALUE went WAY down.
- WASTE from "ME ledger" of the 4!! staff trying to run after this lady .. PLUS me! It took our energy, time, concern .. not only THEN, but also LATER! As we rethought the experience we got anxious for the next same happening again. That means our FUTURE or WORRY ledger is taking withdraws or WASTING resources! All the staff are worrying they will be BLAMED thought they have no ability to WATCH her, since they are already doing MANY people's jobs. "Productivity "you know eh? NO!! wow .. I just realized what I am RANTING about all these years! I always jokingly said if only I ran the world (the person who forgets to pay bills and never gets the cleaning done.) Hey I multi THINK, not multi task .. like those successful NON GENIUSES. 🥸 .. 😫 me multi TASKING. OK so as you successful CORPORATE GUYS watch out for PRODUCTIVITY do you not see you actually are DECREASING EVERYTHING? EVERY RESOUCE OF VALUE IS WASTED .. while you merrily clap at a few extra $ profit. SORRY this is just STUPID. You are lucky becaseu I was going to start a revolution to kill (war on) Rich guys. But I was giving you a choice .. if still HUMAN the join FAIR. and maybe even sponsor our template REVERSE WORLD. You will see our Right brain way works BETTER for everybody.
- But you also are wasting from the WE ledger becaseu the story of your mismanagement and inept quality of care will get out. People talk .. and that is far more important than ADVERTISING. So if you do an actual QUALITY JOB you increase EVERYTHING including profit! it is a WIN WIN! We have dome. win LOSE so long we are just about DONE. My way is actually the only possible solution before our EXTINCTION as DODO birds!
- You are WASTING value in the me (staff) and We (promotion) ledgers but also in the greater good (US) ledger. Say people find out Chartwell does a terrible job .. you have 200 "homes"! What about the hundreds of worried about their elderly parents children that you create? Your terrible quality of service is destructive to our human stock market in every way. If you joined our better way .. considering 3 Ledgers at all times plus the FAIR CERTIFICATION you would do better becauseu your communities are better, THANKS TO YOU.
- Do you see how stupid management and especially not intelligent "productivity " aka cutting CORNERS actually educes value of EVERYTHING many times becaseu my life affects me and my kids maybe my friends. YOUR behaviour affects maybe 1000's .. so your decreasing a leder is MULTI{LIED a 1000 x. HEY .. my idea is actually more brilliant than I knew. No wonder our quality of life is GONE! We have had decades of decreasing our SOCIETAL Quality of Life Ledgers all because it suited the corporations to believe that PRODUCTIVITY IS KING. NO!! 🤬 productivity has almost DESTROYED HUMANITY!!! Wake up and join us to become "FAIR R3 C8."
Yike something happened .. lost stuff?
Please NOTE! Chartwell is by no means alone in its "NOT SMART"! It is just that HERE .. I have lived in a microcosm, of everything wrong with society! I have learned so much here .. how everyone is TRAPPED in "the BOTTOM line" which is actually MY FAULT as senior .. all of us entitled PENSIONED SENIORS! WE cause the Chartwells to HAVE TO increase profit so our pension can remain secure. So we have to face if we want quality of life, vALUE in the REAL human stock market, profit will decline. But ToTAL Societal Health will increase, improving life for EVERYONE! People and companies who work together with our one goal .. increasing the VALUE of our HUMAN stock exchange CAN make life better. Corporations still get their profit but it is more INTELLIGENT .. not killing all other value in its path. Sorry guys .. you can no longer be paid 500x your workers. If you can sleep at night, you are not human. As Alien we will have to kill you for our safety. Hopefully you are just stupid and not EVIL. Stupid is caused by having you head ONLY in the profit tunnel. The result of STUPID is UNDERSTANDABLE because like I said, I was culpable in causing that single mindedness with my PENSION entitlement. Please Come out of that profit single mindedness, the profit tunnel, and get a broader vision of TOTAL VALUE, not just the least important resource..
besides the previous Ledger example .. connecting Staff to residents well being is far better
Yes guys I know you hire all part time to avoid benefits but it disconnects EVERYTHIG and is a HORRIBLE life for staff, residents AND your managers. Disconnecting all work reduces loyalty, creates a lack of true care and stresses EVERYONE. The reduction in this LIFE Ledgers Value in not way matches your savings on benefits!
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